I don't read a lot of blogs in general - it's hard enough to keep up with my own - and I certainly don't read a lot of blogs about international sex tourism or love tourism or adventure dating or whatever you want to call it.
But having scanned a few, and having recently returned from Thailand, and having overheard / spoken to a few dudes who were overly impressed with themselves, let me point out a few things that people often think are pretty remarkable in their sexual adventures (especially but not exclusively) in SE Asia, that are in fact pretty fucking mundane:
1) The whores liked me so much, they fought over me! -- Believe me, hang around whores often enough,and you will find it more unusual if they DON'T fight over you. Whores are viciously possessive about their customers. But that's related to point two:
2) The whore didn't charge me! -- If I can quote William Burroughs, "Beware of whores that say they don't want money, for in the long run these are the most expensive whores that can be got."
It was a matter of common bar-punter wisdom in Thailand that you should ALWAYS pay the girls you fuck, even and especially when they offer you freebies, or you are setting yourself up for all manner of trouble, up to and including being stabbed in the dick. Cash on the barrel-head is a simple transaction, love is not.
3) I fucked a beauty queen! -- First of all, when a girl says she's a former or current beauty queen, that could mean anything, as those pageants are held daily in some countries (I'm looking at you, Philipines and Dominican Republic.)
Second of all, to win such contests, that means she probably had to fuck all the judges better than all the other girls in the contests, who also had to fuck all the judges.
(One of my rich guys said that in the mid-00s in Russia, he and his rich friends would organize beauty pageants just so they could get a new crop of hot teenage babes from the villages to fuck.)
4) She cooked and cleaned for me! -- This is also related to #2 above. By the time the girl is cooking and cleaning for you, she's probably going to start getting possessive and expecting you to be the man of the house. So expect cooking and cleaning to be highly correllated with tears and threats, and possibly with getting stabbed in the dick.
5) She washed my feet! -- This is not so much a sign of boundless affection, as she thinks your hygiene is piss-poor. She cleaned your ears and your feet, and your balls?
Yes, because she thought they were yucky.